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clare
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| 11/25/2009 3:33 PM |
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| In a guy's case he can ask her! I guess a girl could too. If a girl likes a guy for more than his looks or gifts, she will treat him different. Maybe be more serious, and treat him like a brother. If a girl is after your attention, she will flirt like crazy, dress in a way to get looks, and do everything she can to get him to ask her out. Those are the shallow girls who chase guys because he's good looking. |
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sometimes He says yes. Sometimes He says no. Sometimes He says wait awhile....
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newbie
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| 12/05/2009 2:16 PM |
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| well i was expecting to breaze through the book knowing already what it said. But the part where guys talked about mean girls really convicted me. Im a pretty nice person but to think about all the stuff ive said about girls i was mad at to my guy freinds makes me want to cry. I have porable lost so muhc respect from all them by now. I also noticed the part about respect for guys. I normally treat guys as if there fealings and secrets dont matter and thats going to change. |
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Natalie
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| 12/07/2009 9:24 PM |
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| Yes, that's exactly how I felt as well. It made me remember all the times I've said something that a girl most likely wouldn't find disrespectful or hurtful, but that a guy would. |
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"Hope is the thing with feathers,
that perches in the soul,
and sings the tune without words
and never stops at all."
-Emily Dickinson |
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Natalie
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| 12/07/2009 9:24 PM |
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| Yes, that's exactly how I felt as well. It made me remember all the times I've said something that a girl most likely wouldn't find disrespectful or hurtful, but that a guy would. |
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"Hope is the thing with feathers,
that perches in the soul,
and sings the tune without words
and never stops at all."
-Emily Dickinson |
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Shortnsassy3436
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| 12/08/2009 10:17 AM |
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| the hardest thing was the Respect chapter because I know that before reading the book I was kinda mean ( in a joking way) with most of my guy friends...and some of the things guy think of when girls dress a certain way are hard to hear because I question myself alot now with the way I dress, even if it is decent. |
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<3 One tear in the driving rain,One voice in the sea of pain,could the maker of the star hear the sound of my breaking heart. - Tenth Avenue North, Hold my Heart. <3 |
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Tally C.
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| 12/26/2009 3:15 PM |
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| I didn't really find anything too hard to hear, but I was amazed at some of the answers on the survey questions when they were listed. The answers that I thought were the obvious answers, weren't the majority! As I read, I also found that guys weren't as difficult or totally out there as some people think. When I found out that they liked respect, I realized that they don't get nearly enough of that and that girls tease them just jokingly way too much, not really realizing what they are saying. So, all the guys who helped out with the book are awesome to explain stuff that I other wise wouldn't have know. Cheers to you! XD |
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"like sunlight burning at midnight,
making my life something so beautiful, beautiful,
mercy reaching to save me,
All that I need,
YOU are so beautiful, beautiful" |
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Tally C.
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| 12/26/2009 3:17 PM |
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oops, I meant to say *known, not "know". lol  |
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"like sunlight burning at midnight,
making my life something so beautiful, beautiful,
mercy reaching to save me,
All that I need,
YOU are so beautiful, beautiful" |
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Raydio
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| 02/02/2010 9:27 PM |
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| I think what got me the most (so far, I'm not finished with it yet) was how visual guys are. I feel bad for them, and it really makes me want to make things easier for them. I think I definitely respect guys more because of how strong they have to be to beat down the tempting visualizations of girls. |
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MehNamesBLAIR
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| 02/07/2010 2:21 AM |
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| I didnt find anything hard to hear it was interesting and super informative. the book made me realize my misakes and how to take care of others(guys)better. What actually got me the most in the book was the RESPECT part. im usually really respctful in general and i know that there are ils out there who disespect boys alot...you know? i truly didnt realize how guys felt about being disrespected and now i know to becareful with w gys feel because guys are fragile too xD haha that never hought id hear myself saying that...it makes them even more sweeter though |
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Elaina
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| 02/14/2010 9:56 PM |
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| Hardest to hear? Well, probably that guys are attracted very much to the physical (especially where figure is concerned). Makes me feel kind of worthless. I used to be a pretty busty girl, but now I've lost a lot of weight, so while my figure's kind of attractive, it's not what it used to be. Because of this I don't feel as "worth it" as I used to. It was refreshing to hear, though, that guys aren't looking for a supermodel. I thought it was very interesting that they want a girl who is a healthy weight. It makes sense. |
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